Natalie writes: I am a 25-year-old woman who loves to socialize and adores dancing. However, I have no social life. Why? Because of cigarettes. I suffer from asthma and a specific, severe allergy to cigarette smoke. You may think this allergy is unusual but it isn't. I know of others who suffer from similar allergies.
So, you speak of smokers rights but what about my rights? Why can't I have a drink with friends in my local pub? Why can't I go dancing in a nightclub (something I would love to do as I have been attending dance lessons since the age of 7)?
You say many pubs have non-smoking areas which is adequate provision. I say no. It only takes ONE person to light up a cigarette for it to fill a room with smoke. How many times do you think that I've put my trust in publicans and the great British public to adhere to non-smoking areas? I have tried many times, so that I can have a social life (a basic human right). However, on most occasions when I can find a table in the non-smoking section (you may not like this but they are usually very crowded with non-smokers) at least one person (usually drunk) lights up and spoils my evening.
Experience has shown me that it is pointless to inform bar staff (usually too busy or indifferent) and asking the smoker to either stub out or move out of the non-smoking section leads to a stream of abuse and can be a dangerous thing to do.
So-called 'non-smoking areas' are usually pathetically inadequate. Apparently, invisible walls that divide an open plan room into 'smoking' and 'non-smoking' are able to stop the smoke from floating into the non-smoking area. This is particularly amusing on a crowded Friday or Saturday night when the smoke hangs like a thick fog. It won't surprise you that I have never yet come across this type of invisible barrier that actually works.
Your habit/addiction/human right of smoking literally rules over my day to day life. Smoking can destroy a simple thing for me like going on holiday, eating in a restaurant, staying in a hotel or even popping to my local pub. However, you may be surprised to hear that I think that some smoking in public areas can be permitted - providing that the smoking area is in a separate, sealed room and that restaurant owners/publicans go to more lengths to stop people smoking in the non-smoking areas.
You may think that my medical conditions make my arguments worthless. But all of my female friends of my age group do not smoke. They get sick of returning from an evening out reeking of smoke with stinging red eyes. They do not necessarily think that all public smoking should be banned but support the adequate provision of spaces where we can have a choice - where we don't have to breathe in smoke or be smoked upon.
One final thought. I have a couple of male friends who smoke. We have debated this subject often. They want to smoke but understand (and agree) that other people shouldn't have to breathe in their smoke. One friend has spent time in Canada. You really have to want to smoke if you are prepared to stand outside in their freezing cold temperatures! I don't want to turn this into a feminist issue but such weather conditions will certainly separate the men from the boys!
Smokers please take responsibility for your choice - and that includes the choice of non-smokers. You live in an enlightened age where medical and scientific advancements have been able to warn you of the dangers of smoking and can also prolong the life of a smoker who has a disease caused by their habit. I wish my grandmother could have taken advantage of modern medicine. She might have beaten the cancer she developed from her habit of smoking.
Choice and adequate provision - MY basic human right - that is all I ask for.